Between Love & Hate

The 2020 Toxic Release

Okay, we are in a whole new decade and absolutely cannot take toxic behaviors, people and actions into the new year!  In this episode Mo and Dree are discussing the toxic behaviors of both men and women that prevent love from finding you, or keeping the flames alive in your current relationship.

Sliding Into the DM

Sass, Soul or Smile: What Made Her to Standout?

Parties, celebrations and mixers are a perfect time to meet someone new. However, standing out in a crowd can be a challenge! In this episode we have invited special guests Julie and Martin to discuss how they casually chatted in a FB group, met at a single's event, and what  drew them to one another in the midst of a crowd. We're also going to explore the non-traditional ways to meet someone and which options work best!

Different Manipulation Tactics in Relationships

You have said a hundred times, "If it happens again I'm leaving!" However, you find yourself right back in the same bed, with the same poom-poom or penis, and sadly with the same results. In this episode Mo and Dree are taking a deeper look at the manipulation tactics used in relationships and how to know when to cut it off!

Burn the Mistletoe: Loneliness, Loss and the Holidays

Last holiday you were married or dating, and this year you're going into the holiday season alone.  Or you were single last year and had high hopes that this year would be different, but your status is the same.  In this episode, we're discussing loneliness during the holiday's whether due to loss, divorce or still being single.

YOU might be the problem!

If you're single, always in and out of relationships, infidelity keeps happening or your relationship is just rocky, perhaps it's not them but YOU!  Insecurity, lack of motivation, argumentative, and lack of self-confidence can all destroy the chances of love or maintaining love.  So grab your sip and let's see if there's some opportunities for change!

Sex or No Sex?

The reality is that sex can change a relationship, change a person or be the reason for mixed signals.  In this episode, Mo and Dree discuss if sex can keep a man, the power of the "D", withholding sex and a lot more!  So grab your "adult sip" and let's talk!

Lazy Libido

Whether due to child birth, increasing age, a stressful lifestyle, or illness, the sex drive or libido can be impacted.  Unfortunately because sex is typically such an integral part of a relationship, this can often put stress on both the individual and relationship.  Therefore, we have invited family physician Dr. Monique May into the studio to discuss the signs, symptoms and curses for a Lazy Libido. 

To Have and To Hold Charlotte

In this episode we welcome Clinton & Ursula Douglas from the hit reality TV show "To Have and To Hold- Charlotte."  We'll talk marriage, reality TV, and what it takes to maintain a successful relationship.

How to Fall Out of Love, Like, and Lust

Some people say that it takes twice as long to fall out of love with someone as it does to fall in love, and the process to disconnect can be heartbreaking and disappointing.  Whether it was someone who you met and you were really excited about and not it's going flat, a long-term relationship or a divorce, your emotions and peace are still disrupted.  In this episode we're discussing how to fall out of love and get your heart moving in the right direction.

Mom Was Crazy, Pappa Was a Rolling Stone: Breaking the Patterns of Unhealthy Relationships

Whether we want to believe it or not, we become our parents and often repeat the same patterns in life and love.  For some, this can be very healthy while for others this can lead down a road of unhealthy relationships, lack of clarity on how to love, and further actions of self-sabotage.  In recognition of Mental Health Awareness month, in this episode we're discussing how the past can influence your current love life and how to break unhealthy cycles.

Square Pegs and Round Holes: The Signs of Settling

It's been more than six months and you haven't been on a date and even longer since you've had any intimacy.  You hear the biological clock ticking and all of your friends have their spouse or significant other while you're on the sidelines watching.  At this point, this is where the danger zone to settling starts. In this episode we're discussing how to identify the signs of settling, why settle and how to make sure that you don't!

Decoding What A Man Emotionally Needs To Fall In Love

How many times have we seen the playboy, self-proclaimed eternal bachelor suddenly fall in love and within 8 month's he's walking down the aisle.  Often in these scenarios a woman was able to decode his emotional needs which set her apart from the others.  In this episode Mo and Dree will discuss the top 7 emotional needs of men and how women can tap into this secret place and become exactly what he needs.

How To Keep Your Partner Sexually Satisfied...For Real!

Studies show that approximately 80% of women fake orgasms and 35% of men cheat due to sexual reasons.  In this episode we have invited sex therapist Tia Evans into the studio to share the reasons that cause sexual barriers for couples, provide education on "hot spots" on the body, and so much more!

Balancing Love, Career, And A Sex Life!

For many people who are very ambitious, career-focused, or entrepreneurial finding the balance between a`relationship and a career can be very challenging, and will result in either a struggling relationship or non-existent love-life.  In this episode Mo and Dree discuss the importance of ambition, the necessity of balance and how to keep the fire burning...or at least get it started!

What Keeps Him Single

In a society where the male to female ratio is 5 to 1, it would seem that every man over 40 should be happily married.  However, the statistics show differently. In this episode Mo and Dree have invited a special guest to share his views on what makes dating challenging for men over 40, why professional men are waiting longer and what are they looking for in a woman

Blocked. You Better Call Tyrone!

Ditch the block!  In the day of social media we have allowed blocking and deleting to become the way to close a relationship, whether friendship or a romantic relationship.  However, that is not closure.  The need for cognitive closure, also known as NFCC, is a psychological term that describes the necessity for a firm answer and aversion towards ambiguity.  In this episode we discuss the emotional damage that blocking someone can cause, why blocking makes a person feel empowered and tips to...

Help! I'm Stuck Single

So it seems like everyone that you know is married, traveling the world together and enjoying companionship, meanwhile you're consistently asking for a table for one.  Perhaps you met someone but have trouble getting a second date.  In this episode we're taking an introspective look at why some people stay single longer than others and what can be done to move past that phase.

Cougars and Manthers

In this episode we're discussing stepping outside of the age box and throwing caution to the wind when it comes to choosing who to date or a mate based on age alone, which may not be the best criteria.  We'll take a look at the pros and cons and the root of age restriction when choosing love.

What Turns A Man Off In The First 48

In this episode we're talking about what turns him off before the first few dates-- weave, makeup, narcissism, unappreciative, or even baby talking! We're also going to talk about what turns her off such as height, job, lack of motivation, controlling or flirty ways, and if any of these should be the reason that the dating stops.  So let's start the conversation!

When Being Faithful Is A Struggle

In the perfect fairy tale, tale couple meets, falls in love, has the picket fence and lives happily ever after.  However, that is not always reality.  In this episode, Mo and Dree are going to have an open discussion on why remaining faithful is a challenge from a male and female perspective and what actions should be considered in doing so.

Catfish, Cuddle Buddy or Companion: How To Tell If They're Into You

As  we get older, dating and relationships may become more complex due to professions, long-distance relationships, and other adult responsibilities.  As a result you may find yourself in a quandry trying to understand if the person is into you, should you wait or move on. In this episode, Mo and Dree will discuss how to identify if a person is just being nice or sees you as a potential mate.

Insecure!

Insecurity whether single, dating or in a relationship can be the cause of missing out on so many wonderful opportunities and creating undue stress on your partner.  However, it's critical to also acknowledge the root cause.  In this episode Mo and Dree are covering how insecurity impacts sex, relationships and even an individual.

Taming The Tongue- How to Keep Fights Clean and Productive

Emotions and frustration can quickly derail a conversation into a space of being offensive, hurtful and unable to rebound.  Learning to "fight" fair with respect and being intentional about understanding the other persons view point is critical in any relationship. 

Single Does Not Mean Struggling

Often there are so many negative connotations around being single whether self-imposed or imposed by others.  It can be viewed as lonely, undesirable or unable to be loved.  In this episode we're going to explore the root of this thinking as well as ways to change the perception because single does not mean struggling!

I Want My Partner, But Not Their Kids!

Whether dating or married children from a previous relationship can add a level of complexity to an otherwise healthy and seamless relationship.  Often this will occur for many reasons such as differences in values, priorities and discipline methods which may leave the partner frustrated and disconnected.  In this episode we're discussing dating with children and stepchildren, and how to make it work.

The Impact of Divorce on Men

Men are taught to be tough, don't cry and ensure that they are unbreakable.  However, when divorce and heartbreak happen, navigating the emotions and healing can be an entirely different experience for men. If not handled properly this experience can have a negative impact on future relationships.  We'll talk about these impacts, and how women can handle dating a guy who has been divorced or separated. 

When You're the Broken Piece

Due to life experiences, failures, and hurt-filled relationships sometimes we can find ourselves in a space where we can no longer love ourselves which can impact every facet of our life.  In this episode Mo and Dree are discussing how self-love is lost, the outcomes, and how to get it back.

How To Keep Your Sex Life HOTT!!!

Sometimes life can get in the way of having an intense sex life, or sometimes the communication is not there or you simply were not taught everything that you should know regarding pleasing your partner.  In this episode certified sex therapist Tia Evans joins us to share her knowledge on how to communicate, introduce kinky sex toys for additional pleasure, and so much more!

Finding And Keeping The Perfect Match

As the weather grows colder and the holidays are approaching, often times our desire for a partner gets more intense.  In this episode Mo and Dree have invited the MatchMaking DUO and authors of the critically-acclaimed book, "Relationship DUOvers", Kelli Fisher and Tana Gilmore to discuss how to find your perfect match and keep them!

You Want Your Ex Back....So Go Get Them!

You thought that the grass was greener on the other side, and you learned that it was turf and now you regret it.  You realize that you were soul mates and no one is measuring up, so you have to go back and get them.  In this episode, Mo and Dree discuss the pros and cons and ensuring that you're not making the same mistake twice.

Take Off the Armor...It's Too Heavy

In this episode we talk about being guarded, and how that impacts relationships.

When The Bar Is Set Too High

When it comes to loving relationships we all have certains wants and needs.  The expectatioins that we sometimes set, however, may be too high and unattainable for others, which can leave everyone frustrated.

Should you "Fix a Flat?"

There are times when we meet a potential mate who may be flat-down on their luck, unemployed, underemployed or have complicated domestic issues.  Although they may be fun, a great listener, and an all-around nice person, it may be difficult to assess how they'll add value to your life, and if this is only a "moment" in their life or a disguised "norm."

Thou Shall Not Be Bitter

Constant hurt, disappointment and "heart pain," will eventually lead to bitterness which is a sure way to prevent moving into a new relationship.  In this episode we're talking about how to spot bitterness in yourself and someone else, and we're also going to give you the ten commandmanents on how to move past bitterness.

How To Love an Alpha Woman

Woman are no longer staying home and baking apple pies while wearing pearls.  Whether forced by society to take the lead roles or by choice, sometimes loving an alpha woman can cause difficulities in a relationship.  In this episode we're discussing the benefits and pitfalls of being an alpha female and how men really feel about a woman who may be too strong.

Situationships vs Relationships

Let's face it.  We now live in a society where "situationships" are encouraged, glorified, and the temptress to those who are in relationships.  However situationships, which include all of the benefits without the commitment, are often dangerous and end in casualty.

Rebound Dating

The term "rebound dating" can be traced back to the 1830's when Mary Russell Milford wrote, "nothing so easy as catching a heart on the rebound." By the time we reach 35, we have been hurt or disappointed more times by love than we want to remember which often makes us skeptical, scared or sometimes too eager for the next relationship.  Unfortunately, when we do this we do not allow ourselves time to heal properly which will impact how we date, the mate we choose and how we move forward in o...

1 Date, 2 Dates, 3 Dates...NO DATES!

Dating, especially after 35 can be difficult for many reasons, including inflexibility, being in different places financially, adapting to "new school" dating, and overall falling into a space of complacency.  During this week's episode, Mo and Dree discuss the benefits and challenges of dating, what makes a man ask for a second date, and why a woman will allow your call to go to voicemail after date number one.

Does Love Require Sacrifice?

We make sacrifices in our everyday lives-- for our kids, for our religions/beliefs, for our family--, so should sacrificing for love in intimate relationships be any different?  Or are you of the mindset that you shouldn't have to sacrifice anything for love because the person you ultimately end up with should accept you for who you are?  Join Mo and Dree as they discuss this topic, and what role sacrifice/compromise should or shouldn't play in an intimate relationship.

Friends vs. Lovers

Friendships of the opposite sex are becoming more common as society has changed and social networks have increased.  Although friendships can be healthy, it's important to maintain balance between friends of the opposite sex and your significant other.  Join Mo and Dree as they discuss the pros and cons of having friends of the opposite sex when in a committed relationship, and how to keep from crossing any lines if you choose to do so.

Why Does It Take So Long To Commit?

By the time we reach our 30’s, we have experienced the ups and sometimes, severe down” of a relationship which can make us hesitant to to commit. Often times this leads to casual sex, one night stands, or other situations which can leave us feeling empty. Tune in as we discuss what can hold a person back from commitment, how to overcome fears, and why relationships are healthy!

Don't Let Go Too Soon, But Don't Hang On Too Long

Often times relationships can get to a place where they can no longer be salvaged, which is an incredibly difficult decision especially for those who have invested a lot of time and energy.  On the other hand, perhaps there's still hope.  Before making the final decision to end a relationship, tune in to get some tips from Mo and Dree'.

Friends, Family and Fools!

The reality is that our relationships, beliefs, and desires to be accepted are influenced by those in our circle whether it be family, friends, or those who should never give advice!  Join us as we discuss the importance of friends, creating boundaries, and how to prioritize the person you're with. 

It's Not You, It's Your Social Media Behavior

Since 2003, social media has changed the way we date and engage in relationships.  Join Mo and Dree as they discuss the pitfalls and benefits that social media can have, and ways that you can ensure your relationship can still thrive in the virtual world.

Stilettos In The Trunk, Secret Credit Cards-- The Impacts of Financial Infidelity

Racking up expenses, hiding credit cards, dishonesty about debt or hiding purchases are known as Financial Infidelity, and can be as dangerous as physical infidelity becauses it tears at the core of trust.  Join the conversation as we discuss the causes, signs, and solutions for this form of infidelity as it may save your relationship.  

"You Complete Me" Means That You're Not Ready.

Often times people want a relationship, but once the opportunity presents itself it will be obvious that they're not ready.  Whether infidelity, divorce, or simply enjoying the single life, it's important to recognize the signs to know when waiting is the best option.

Bae, Blues, Bipolar and More: How Mental Health Impacts Relationships

We think it's love when he calls your phone 10 times in an hour, or she cries whenever you go to the grocery store.  However, there could be a more serious issue that needs to be addressed.  Join Mo and Dree with special guest Steven Carmichael M.A., LPC, NCC of Courage Counseling as he identifies the signs and symptoms of mental health issues (including depression) and how to keep your relationship from falling apart.

The Forbidden Fruit- Why Good Girls Like Bad Boys

The "bad boy" who is a risk-taker, walks on the wild side and runs towards adventure has always had a soft spot in the hearts of women. On the contrary the polite "good girl" is who men want to marry. Find out the reasons why and is it really what is needed for a healthy relationship.

Sex, Love, & Videotapes

Sex and intimacy are critical to a healthy relationship, but sometimes life happens and "that part" begins to fade and become mundane.  Join this discussion as licensed sex therapist Tia Evans teaches us a varitety of ways to bring back the heat!