Tale as old as time, blah, blah, blah. You know this dance one uggo man must be loved by pretty woman to become an ex-uggo. We discuss the use of what was once a story about becoming a courting story to explain to young women how to navigate their new life married to a man they have never met to the "He's troubled and I can fix him". Along with removal of external ugliness to personality problems that wasn't the point of the entire story.