Beauty Define

Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself - Part 2

August 21, 2022 22:38 - 18 minutes - 17.2 MB

Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself – Part 2 Hey Beauties, welcome back to Beauty Define’s Podcast. This is part 2 of the episode Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself. Be sure to listen to Part 1. We play ourselves in many ways. We must be wise in our relationships whether that be family relationships, romantic relationships, and business. Not playing yourself takes reflection and practice. In life we are meeting the same people with different faces. This means when one person plays you, another is co...

Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself - Part 1

August 21, 2022 22:31 - 8 minutes - 7.74 MB

Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself – Part 1. Hey Beauties, welcome back to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss ways to Ways to Avoid Playing Yourself – Part 1. Be sure to listen to Part 2. We have all experienced regrets in life or even moments where we realized we have been played. There are times where we reflect and ask ourselves – How did I not see that coming? How did I allow myself to get played? Listen to this episode to learn several tips on ways to avoid pl...

The Cost of Evolving

July 18, 2022 19:08 - 22 minutes - 20.9 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss the Cost of Evolving. Beauties, evolving into a better version of yourself comes with a cost. There is a risk that’s associated with it and I believe that’s why so many women refuse to do the inner work. It requires a purge and you must face the woman in the mirror. There may be trauma, guilt, shame, misery, etc. that you have to address in order to evolve. You may lose family, friends, or even yo...

Intimidating Standards (Part 2)

May 01, 2022 18:32 - 18 minutes - 17 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss Intimidating Standards Part 2. The only people that are intimated by your standards are people that can’t reach them OR people that benefit from you having none. Beauties, do not i repeat do not allow people to exploit you as a woman. You have a lot to offer even at your rawest state. If you knew your true value, you would charge and add tax to it. You should have standards for yourself and othe...

Intimidating Standards (Part 1)

May 01, 2022 18:25 - 15 minutes - 14.4 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss Intimidating Standards. The only people that are intimated by your standards are people that can’t reach them OR people that benefit from you having none. Beauties, do not i repeat do not allow people to exploit you as a woman. You have a lot to offer even at your rawest state. If you knew your true value, you would charge and add tax to it. You should have standards for yourself and others. If ...

The Art of Releasing

January 31, 2022 04:21 - 17 minutes - 16.3 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss the Art of Releasing. Beauties, learning to release the things, people, habits, and spaces that no longer serve you is often times a difficult process for many of us. Trust me I’ve been there. And I’ve learned that it takes time and it’s a process that we must go through to grow and eventually heal ourselves. Some of the women listening to this episode may be in the exact situation I’m going to sp...

Beauty Define's Website Launch!!!

December 17, 2021 06:17 - 1 minute - 1.44 MB

Hey Beauties, Beauty Define's website has officially launched! Please visit www.beautydefine.shop to discover your newest obsession! Beauty Define was created for ALL women and to inspire ALL women to believe they are "fearfully and wonderfully made." On this platform you will find hand made self care and beauty products, Beauty Define's Blog, and Beauty Define's Podcast. Our products are moisturizing and smells heavenly to enhance your bath experience! So go ahead and shop! Read the blog ...

Believe in YOURSELF!

November 02, 2021 01:58 - 16 minutes - 15.3 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I’m going to discuss believing in yourself. Beauties, its nice to have someone by your side that can encourage you and believe in yourself. However, you should believe in yourself as there may be seasons in your life where people doubt you. You may even doubt yourself at times, but you have to get back up. Listen to this episode to get tips on how to believe in yourself or increase your self-believe. Beauties, there...

Beauty Define's NEW WEBSITE COMING SOON!!!

October 11, 2021 02:56 - 3 minutes - 3.63 MB

Hey Beauties, Thank you for supporting Beauty Define's Podcast. I have great news!! Beauty Define's website is coming soon on www.beautydefine.shop On this new platform I will share the official website launch date, beauty product releases (handmade soaps, body oils, body scrubs, lip scrubs, etc.), new podcast episodes on beauty defines podcast, inspirational things, and much more!! Let’s glow up together! Sign up prior to launch date and you will receive 3 free lip scrubs and 5% off y...

Safety Tips for Girls & Women

October 11, 2021 02:10 - 22 minutes - 20.5 MB

Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I will discuss Safety Tips for Girls and Women! I’ve been thinking of creating this episode as so many women around the world are victims of crimes. My heart mourns for the thousands if not millions of girls and women in this world that are victims of domestic violence, rape, sexual assault, and murder victims. I am passionate about women’s rights as well as justice for women in these spaces. I want to share some safety tips with ...

Ladies, Never Propose - You are the Prize! Part 2

September 25, 2021 21:40 - 26 minutes - 24.5 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. This is part 2 of the episode ladies never propose because you are the prize. Be sure to listen to part 1. On this episode, I am going to share tips with women that value marriage and are dating and in relationships.Always remember you are the prize, do not settle for less, and love yourself always. xoxo. I hope you learned more on why you are the prize and you should never propose to a man. Thank you for your support Beauties. Stay ...

Ladies, Never Propose - You are the Prize! Part 1

September 25, 2021 17:09 - 21 minutes - 20 MB

Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I will discuss the topic of Ladies, Never Propose - You are the Prize! Part 1. I wanted to get ahead of this trend before it becomes the norm to pre-warn you to not get into this predicament. I’ve been seeing pictures and videos of women proposing to men specifically in the U.S. Some of these women are bended on one knee while pregnant. And often times the women are buying the rings and the wedding dress. Beauties, you are the p...

Struggle Love

August 28, 2021 19:32 - 25 minutes - 23.2 MB

Welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I will discuss the topic of struggle love. This is struggle love as it relates to friendships, romantic partners, and even business. Never trust someone that tries to set you up with someone or something less than your equal. This applies to relationships, business, friendships, etc. You are at a certain wavelength and should entangle with others equal to you or above you. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t interact with others and de...

The Art of Self Love

May 18, 2021 04:57 - 11 minutes - 11 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome back to Beauty Define. On today’s episode I will discuss the Art of Self Love. The famous Eartha Kitt once said I already love myself. I’m just hoping someone will join me in it. Another famous woman said “I already like me, your like is extra.” This means when you come into my life you are simply adding to the love I already have for myself. So I want to ask you this question Beauties: what do you believe Self Love is? How do you practice self love? And how will you ...

Dealing with the Narcissist

April 25, 2021 05:46 - 18 minutes - 17.4 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome back to Beauty Defines podcast. On todays episode I am going to discuss how to deal with the narcissist. If you haven’t done so, be sure to listen to my previous episode titled: the narcissist. As a disclaimer: I am not a medical doctor and I am not offering medical advice of any sort. This episode is strictly based on my opinion and used for encouragement purposes only. Beauties, you cannot control or change the narcissist. Never think its your responsibility to chan...

The Narcissist

April 19, 2021 02:56 - 20 minutes - 18.8 MB

Hey beauties, on today’s episode I will discuss the narcissist. As a disclaimer: I am not a medical doctor and I am not offering medical advice of any sort. This episode is strictly based on my opinion and used for encouragement purposes only. On this episode I provide the traits of a narcissistic person and how to identify one. There is no cure for narcissism. Dealing with a narcissist is exhausting and can damage your mental health and peace of mind. Beauties, the narcissist is dangerou...

Setting Boundaries

April 14, 2021 05:58 - 14 minutes - 13.9 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Define. On today’s episode I will discuss the topic “Setting Boundaries.” Setting boundaries should be a practice. Often times its difficult to set boundaries because society seems to expect women to all agree and if we disagree we are either labeled: angry, bitter, or difficult. No matter where you are on your journey I want you to prioritize setting boundaries. It may be hard at the beginning and you may have to walk alone at some point, but Beauties...

Women, Love, & Protecting Assets

March 27, 2021 05:53 - 23 minutes - 21.7 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Define. On today’s episode I will discuss the topic Women, Love, & Protecting Assets. Disclaimer: I am not offering any legal advice. The purpose of this episode is to encourage you to always think about financial stability/security. Whether you are unmarried or married. Always think ten steps ahead. Consider an estate plan, use your logic in managing your financial affairs (especially if you are in a toxic marriage/relationship). Beauties, always look...

Misery Loves Company

March 14, 2021 03:35 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome back to Beauty Define. On today’s episode I will discuss the topic “Misery Loves Company” What does the expression “Misery Loves company mean?” Misery loves company means people who are suffering are comforted by the knowledge that other are also unhappy. On today's episode, I share tips on how to avoid becoming entangled with miserable people. Beauties, there are people out there that want you to be miserable. They hate to see you smile and be happy unless they are...

Break FREE from Bondage!

February 16, 2021 22:11 - 19 minutes - 17.7 MB

Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss Breaking free from bondage. Bondage is defined as slavery or the state of being bound by or subjected by some external power or control. The act of being restrained by obligations or circumstances. Bondage comes in different forms. Bondage of the mind, soul, and spiritual bondage. Most common bondage I have experienced and witnessed is bondage of the mind. We are groomed to think and behave a certain way espe...

The Art of Discernment - Part 2

January 30, 2021 22:36 - 17 minutes - 16.6 MB

Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss The Art of Discernment - Part 2. I wanted to thank one of our listeners for suggesting this great topic of discernment. On this episode I discuss the remaining tips on how to enhance your discernment. And I focus on two key areas: relationships and friendships. When it comes to relationships with people, you must figure out who they are and how can you manage them. We all have flaws but which flaws can you deal ...

The Art of Discernment - Part 1

January 30, 2021 22:23 - 22 minutes - 21 MB

Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss The Art of Discernment - Part 1. I wanted to thank one of our listeners for suggesting this great topic of discernment. On this episode I discuss four tips on how to enhance your discernment. And I focus on two key areas: relationships and friendships. When it comes to relationships with people, you must figure out who they are and how can you manage them. We all have flaws but which flaws can you deal with? An...

How to Find your Purpose In Life

January 19, 2021 22:02 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss How to Find your Purpose in Life. Let me start off by asking you this questions. What is your purpose in life? Why are you here? And are you living a purpose driven life? Beauties, these are some of the most difficult questions you will ask yourself. Why do I exist? And what’s more interesting is the fact that many people do not know why they exist. I believe that we all have a purpose in this wor...

Level Up in Dating & Relationships

January 19, 2021 05:05 - 17 minutes - 16.2 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, On todays episode I am going to discuss Level up in Dating/Relationship. Beauties, many women have not been groomed or schooled on how to properly vet men and date. Beauties, never allow your love for someone to blind you to the reality of who they are. Whether that someone is a family member, friend, or partner. In fact, when people show you who they are believe them the first time. Listen and learn on dating tips and why women perceiv...

Protect Your Mental Health

January 07, 2021 21:18 - 22 minutes - 20.9 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss Protecting your Mental Health. As a disclaimer, I am not a doctor or professional. However, I believe your mental health is extremely important. Your mental capacity affects everything around you. Listen to this podcast to learn tips on how to Protect your mental Health! Don't give up! Keep living your best life! Beauties, I hope you learned more about tips to Protect and Manage your mental Hea...

The Respectable Man

January 06, 2021 22:25 - 21 minutes - 19.7 MB

Welcome Back to Beauty Defines Podcast, on todays episode I am going to discuss the respectable man. Most men especially decent men have an idea of the type of women they respect and don’t respect. Beauties, you need to do the same. The more you become the more you can demand. its like working for a business. the person that brings the company more money can demand a higher salary. What type of men do you respect? And what do you value in a relationship? Beauties, if you have everything yo...

2021: Enhance your Feminine & Lifestyle

January 06, 2021 21:37 - 19 minutes - 18.3 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome to 2021! thank you for supporting Beauty Define! In this episode I am sharing things you can do in 2021 to enhance your femininity and lifestyle. I hope you accomplish your goals and level up this year. You deserve it! Beauties, I hope you learned more about some things you can do this year to enhance your feminine and lifestyle. Stay tuned for my next episode. I love interacting with my audience please email me at [email protected]. Also, you can leave a vo...

The Art of Being LIGHT

December 29, 2020 21:01 - 11 minutes - 10.3 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome back to Beauty Defines Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss the Art of Being Light. I would like you to join me on this journey of practicing "lightness." I want us to be more intentional about becoming lighter in all areas of our lives. There are key areas we can practice lightness in: our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual space. Train your mind to believe the key areas are “spaces” which you can clear and clean up in different seasons of your l...

Expectations of Others and Disappointment

December 11, 2020 18:18 - 22 minutes - 20.8 MB

Hey Beauties, Welcome to Beauty Defines Podcast. On todays episode I discuss Expectations of Others and Disappointment. Often times our expectations of others will leave us disappointed. You cannot allow your disappointment to linger forever because its alot of weight and burden to carry. If someone continuously disappoints you, adjust your expectation and set yourself free. Also, set that person free of your expectation. We are all on our own journeys. I share tips on how to free yourse...

The Female Privilege

December 05, 2020 12:22 - 19 minutes - 17.6 MB

Beauties, There are men (and women) out there that do not want you to level up. I saw a post online that stated "when people preach down to women you always have to ask what their agenda is. Humbling you keeps you in place. Keeping you in place maintains the pecking order that you need to be grateful for any man that does the bare minimum. who wins in a world like that? low quality men...stop consuming the words or philosophies of those who secretly hate you." Beauties, there are no cons...

Toxic Mother-Daughter Relationships

October 29, 2020 01:14 - 15 minutes - 14.5 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss the toxic mother-daughter relationships. Some of you may not be able to relate to this episode because you had a good and healthy relationship with your mother or mother figure. But one thing we can agree one is that we have all met a girl or woman that grew up with a toxic mother. Beauties, the relationship between a mother and a daughter is complex in many ways. On this episode I share patterns that...

Trust YOURSELF

October 12, 2020 19:39 - 13 minutes - 12.1 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss Trusting Yourself. We spend most of our lives learning to Trust other people. But how much time do we spend learning to trust ourselves. The relationship you have with yourself is the longest relationship you will ever have. If you can’t trust yourself, how can you trust other people? Are you not the captain of your own ship? Beauties, I hope you learned more about Trusting Yourself. Stay tuned for m...

Keep your standards PRIVATE!

October 10, 2020 18:55 - 31 minutes - 29.4 MB

Hey Beauties, On today's episode I discuss why its important to keep your standards PRIVATE in various areas of life: relationship, friendship, career/business, personal development, etc. If you are too vocal about your standards, someone will try to convince you to lower your standards or give you wrong advice. I saw a post on instagram: "If you hang around with four millionaires, you'll become the fifth. the fifth person took advice from the other four to become a millionaire and not from...

The Strong Woman

October 09, 2020 15:17 - 16 minutes - 15.2 MB

Hey Beauties, On today's episode I discuss being a strong woman. Often times, women (especially Black women) are viewed as strong. The Strong Black Woman is an ideology that has its consequences and perks. But generally speaking, when you are viewed as strong, people (especially men) don't think you deserve protection. They don't think you should be provided and protected for. And every woman deserves protection because we have given so much to this world. Yes there are alot of factors t...

The People Pleaser

September 23, 2020 00:07 - 10 minutes - 9.59 MB

Hey Beauties, I learned at a young age that I couldn’t please everyone. One of the greatest lessons I learned: I am not responsible for someone’s happiness. Some people will never be happy. As a woman, you must avoid the trap of being a people pleaser because some people will never be satisfied with you. In this episode, I share the reasons people are not satisfied and how you should prioritize your own happiness. Beauties, I hope you learned more about why you can’t please everyone. Stay ...

Money Matters!

September 22, 2020 02:30 - 13 minutes - 12.8 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss why money matters. Beauties, financial security is important in your level up journey. The love of money is unhealthy. However, understanding how money is used as a tool to get further ahead and create options is healthy and wise. Listen to this episode where I share tips on financial security. Beauties, I hope you learned more about why money matters. Stay tuned for my next episode. I love interac...

The Art of being Intuitive

August 25, 2020 04:25 - 20 minutes - 18.9 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss the art of being intuitive. What is Intuition? Intuition is not just a feeling; it's a process that fills the gap between our conscious and subconscious. Beauties, intuition can be developed and strengthened over time. On this episode I share tips on how to become intuitive and why its so important to become intuitive. Beauties, I hope you learned more about being more intuitive. Stay tuned for my ne...

Masculine & Feminine Energy – Becoming more feminine with your Man (Part 2)

August 18, 2020 18:02 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MB

Hey Beauties, This is part 2 to the episode Masculine & Feminine Energy – Becoming more feminine with your Man. Its important to do what's best for you in your relationship. Learn how to code switch to get what you need out of your relationship whether its operating in your feminine or masculine energy. Beauties, rarely will you find a man that's not doing what's in his best interest. Hence why people think men are selfish. But you need to adopt the same mindset and do what's best for you....

Masculine & Feminine Energy – Becoming more feminine with your Man (Part 1)

August 08, 2020 17:12 - 16 minutes - 15.4 MB

Hey Beauties, This is part 1 to the episode Masculine & Feminine Energy – Becoming more feminine with your Man. According to Katarina Phang: Feminine and Masculine are two life forces. They both need each other to exist. Neither is inferior or superior to the other. Both are needed to keep the fabric of society -and life in general- intact. The masculine man needs the feminine woman. The feminine woman needs the masculine male. As we develop as women, we should only entertain men that...

R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!

August 02, 2020 21:59 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss RESPECT as it relates to your relationships with people. I discuss how to gain respect with family, friends, men, and career. One of the greatest ways to get respect is by having options when it comes to love, career, relationships, etc. And when you have the options you must be fearless. When you are fearless, people will sense they cannot disrespect you and if they do you will leave. set the bar. Y...

Self-Worth (How to treat yourself)

July 30, 2020 02:52 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MB

Hey Beauties, Its important for you to treat yourself well in this life time. The way you treat yourself serves as a guideline on how you expect others to treat you. Listen to this episode where I share tips on how to treat yourself well and developing self-worth. I hope you learned more about self worth and how to treat yourself well. Stay tuned for my next episode. I love interacting with my audience please email me at [email protected] if you have questions about self-developm...

Struggling with the Opinions of Others!

June 24, 2020 03:19 - 11 minutes - 10.7 MB

Hey Beauties, On todays episode I will discuss how to deal with negative opinions of others. People that care too much about about opinions will ultimately live vicariously through others! Stop caring about every opinion and set yourself free. Listen to this episode and learn new tips! Remember everyone has a right to have an opinion of you. But you are not obligated to subscribe to it. Beauties, I hope you learned more about how to deal with opinions and living your best life regardless...

A New Direction!

June 17, 2020 04:07 - 5 minutes - 5.02 MB

Hey Beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s Podcast. On today’s episode I am going to discuss new directions. So I read a quote that states “its okay to take a new direction and path that’s better for you, at any age.” This quote inspired me to create this episode. Never be afraid to take a new direction. Listen to this episode and be inspired! Beauties, I hope you learned more about taking a new path/direction. I love interacting with my audience please email me at [email protected] a...

Destiny

June 17, 2020 03:49 - 5 minutes - 5.32 MB

Destiny is defined as “the events that will necessarily happen to a particular person or thing in the future.” Divine destiny, on the other hand, is the destiny of God in or for a man’s life. It describes the course of events in one’s life, organized or structured by God to fulfill His divine purposes. In fulfilling divine destiny, your life becomes the expression of God’s grace and the unveiling of His love. I believe we all have a destiny and in order to complete the course of events in o...

I love myself because I am a BLACK girl

June 03, 2020 03:39 - 1 minute - 1.52 MB

Hey Beauties, this episode is dedicated to all the Black girls out there. I wrote this poem for you little Black girl. It is a poem, but should also be used as affirmations for your little Black girl! As always, You are Fearfully & Wonderfully Made! xoxo --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/support

The Art of Self-Preservation

May 31, 2020 02:12 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MB

Hey beauties, welcome to Beauty Defines podcast. On today’s podcast I am going to discuss the art of self-preservation. Self-preservation: is defined as the instinct to act in your own best interest to protect yourself and ensure your own survival. When you put yourself last, there are consequences. If you do not learn to master the art of self-preservation, you will eventually suffer physically, emotionally, spiritually, or mentally. And the worse suffering of all, you will live a life reg...

Everything Has Its Time

May 25, 2020 05:19 - 3 minutes - 3.24 MB

Hey beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s podcast. On today’s podcast I am going to discuss timing/seasons. Often times we are in a rush or compare our storyline to someone else’s story. There is no such thing as perfect time for everyone. We are all on different journeys. Learn to embrace your journey/storyline. Ecclesiastes Chapter 3: "Everything Has its Time" is one of my favorite chapters in the Bible. It's like poetry to my eyes/ears when I read there is a time for everything. I put thi...

Evening Affirmations By Beauty Define

May 16, 2020 05:18 - 1 minute - 1.77 MB

Beauties, I wrote this evening affirmation for you! It's great to listen to before bed. Remember to get some rest. I hope you enjoy it :) As always, you are fearfully & Wonderfully made! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/support

Morning Affirmations by Beauty Define

May 12, 2020 02:42 - 2 minutes - 2.45 MB

Beauties, I wrote this morning affirmation for you! I hope you enjoy it :) As always, you are fearfully & Wonderfully made! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ernscie-augustin/support

How to Deal with Negative Judgement from Others

May 11, 2020 05:09 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MB

Hey beauties, welcome to Beauty Define’s podcast. On today’s podcast I am going to discuss negative judgement and provide tips on how to deal with it. No one is born with tough skin. If you meet a person that isn’t easily offended, I promise they developed that skill overtime. To all the judgmental people out there, my question to you is are you perfect? Are you God? Learn to love yourself and maybe then you won’t be so negative towards others. Beauties, being negative towards others is a s...

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