Have You Asked Your Dad?
112 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 months ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratingsThere are some questions that we just don't ask dads, and you know what...those are the exact questions we SHOULD be asking them!
Hosts Sean Loots and Terence Mentor takes up that challenge as they have conversations with each other and their guests that focus on all the complexities of modern fatherhood and life in general.
Have a question that you'd like the dads to take on? Send it to [email protected]
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Episodes
Surviving travelling with your kids
August 14, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MBIn this episode we chat to travel daddy Mandla Dambuza about how he chooses his travel destinations, how to enjoy the journey with his kids, and how sometimes it is okay to go on a little vacation without them! What are your travel tips? DM us on Instagram Check out Mandla beautiful instagram page here. Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected]...
What would you do differently if you restarted as a parent?
July 24, 2023 03:00 - 38 minutes - 26.6 MBIn this episode, we asked you what you would do differently if you could go back and start your parenting journey over! We chat about stressing less (or at least stress about the correct things), getting support as early as possible, and as always, going for therapy. Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/priv...
REPOST: How do parents deal with being sick?
July 06, 2023 12:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MBSean is having a pretty tough week with illnesses this week, so we're posting this episode from earlier in the year all about how parents cope with being sicky! How do dads deal with all the little illnesses that their kids, partners and themselves get from time to time? Do parents even have time to get sick? This episode was a live stream - follow us on Youtube or Instagram to make sure you don't miss the next live chat we do! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out ...
What does your partner do that is worth celebrating this Father's Day?
June 11, 2023 18:00 - 55 minutes - 38.3 MBIn this episode, we ask the ladies from The Great Equalizer podcast about their husbands. We want to know what their baby-daddies do that make it easy to celebrate them for Father's Day! You can watch all the latest The Great Equalizer episodes here: @thegreatequalizerpodcast , and follow them on instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/thegreatequalizerpodcast/ Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ Please take a moment to follow...
Checking in our words of 2023
May 21, 2023 20:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MBAt the beginning of the year, we each chose a word that encapsulates what we hope will represent our 2023 - one word that will show what we hope to be and achieve! (You can listen to that episode here: https://www.afrodaddyonline.com/podcast/episode/7c1d8114/whats-your-word-for-the-year) In this episode, we take a look at how we're doing so far...and Terence decides that he might have to totally change what his word is. What would your word of 2023 be so far, and what would you like it t...
Can parents have hobbies?
April 18, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MBIn this episode, we talk about being how tough it is to find time to do a hobby as a parent, without making it into something that causes you more stress. This episode was a live stream - follow us on Youtube or Instagram to make sure you don't miss the next live chat we do! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to...
How to deal with being sick?
April 03, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MBIn this episode we take on the idea of the man flu! How do dads deal with all the little illnesses that their kids, partners and themselves get from time to time? Do parents even have time to get sick? This episode was a live stream - follow us on Youtube or Instagram to make sure you don't miss the next live chat we do! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it ...
"What Parenting Achievement Makes You Proud?"
February 24, 2023 10:00 - 52 minutes - 36.2 MBWe celebrated getting to our 20th episode by doing a live stream! Here's the recording of the discussion about Parenting Acheivements! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"What was becoming a dad REALLY like?" Ep 3
February 15, 2023 21:00 - 38 minutes - 26.2 MBHave you asked your dad, "What was becoming a dad REALLY like?" This episode we focus in on Terence and Eli. The guys talk about what is like to the support or "background" parent and how we can help dads more in those during the pregnancy, birth and first few days. This is the last of three episodes where we explore what we actually experienced during the first few days, weeks and months with our kids. Dads have a complicated relationship with their own stories of becoming parents, becau...
"What was becoming a dad REALLY like?" Ep 2
February 09, 2023 04:00 - 35 minutes - 24.5 MBHave you asked your dad, "What was becoming a dad REALLY like?" This is the second of three episodes where we explore what we actually experienced during the first few days, weeks and months with our kids. Dads have a complicated relationship with their own stories of becoming parents, because for most of the first part we are background and support actors who are focused on the needs of their partner and child. This is a good thing, but it does mean that when it is time for a dad to work...
"What was becoming a dad REALLY like?"
January 26, 2023 06:00 - 46 minutes - 31.8 MBHave you asked your dad, "What was becoming a dad REALLY like?" You're going to want to watch and listen to this one - especially if you think it's rare to hear a dad speaking honestly about what he felt during the tumultuous start to fatherhood. That's right. We're talking about real dad emotions here! This is the first of three episodes where we explore what we actually experienced during the first few days, weeks and months with our kids. Dads have a complicated relationship with thei...
"What's your Word for the Year"?
January 19, 2023 02:00 - 22 minutes - 15.7 MBHave you asked your dad, "What's your word for the year"? Thanks to loadshedding, we couldn't record this episode in the normal way so it is actually a series of WhatsApp videos that form the conversation we have about our words for 2023! This is going to give you a peek into the way we chat about our topics before the official recording of Have You Asked Your Dad. Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a questio...
"What's your best day off?"
January 12, 2023 08:00 - 22 minutes - 15.7 MBIn this episode of Have You Asked Your Dad, we use our recent experience of having a bit of holiday time to figure out what a dad's best day off looks like. And no, it doesn't evolve an entire day without their family (mostly). You can watch this episode instead of listening to it here: https://youtu.be/atkZ8PJhg1k Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to hyaydp...
"What do you want for Christmas?"
December 01, 2022 01:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MBHave you ever asked your dad "What do you want for Christmas?" You probably have - and there is a good chance that you've been frustrated by the answer. Buying gifts for dads is tough, especially if you are trying to go beyond the stereotypes. But now you don't have to worry, because Sean and Terence have some great ideas for gifts that will make the dads in your life feel super special. (Plus...there is a real challenge for our wives in this one) Please take a moment to follow us on Ins...
"Did parenting change your life goals?"
November 23, 2022 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBHave you ever asked your dad "How did your goals change after you became a parent?" There are so many things that change after you become a parent, not the least of which are your life goals. How have yours changed (if they have)? We talk about our answers in this episode of Have You Asked Your Dad! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] ...
"How did your goals change after you became a parent?"
November 23, 2022 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBHave you ever asked your dad "How did your goals change after you became a parent?" There are so many things that change after you become a parent, not the least of which are your life goals. How have yours changed (if they have)? We talk about our answers in this episode of Have You Asked Your Dad! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected]
"What do you think about Discipline?"
November 17, 2022 02:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MBHave you ever asked your dad "What do you think about Discipline?" In this episode, Sean and Terence dive into how they were disciplined as kids and how that has affected their parenting styles. Plus, you get a taste of how Terence discplines his own kids as they keep interrupting the recording! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hoste...
"Have You Ever Felt Weak?"
November 09, 2022 01:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MBHave you asked your dad, "Have you ever felt weak?" To help us answer that question, we chatted to Lee van den Bergh - an ex-athlete and fitness trainer to some of SA's biggest sports stars. Lee was diagnosed with a type of arthritus that makes his usual high level of fitness incredibly painful to maintain. In fact, the illness makes even the normal day to day activities that a dad does difficult. Despite that, he manages to keep a positive attitude that is driven by his mantra: "Start wh...
"What do you like to cook?"
October 19, 2022 21:00 - 21 minutes - 15 MBHave you asked your dad, "What do you like to cook?" For both Sean and Terence, their moms were the main cooks in the house...so has anything changed for the new generation? Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"How do feel about money?"
October 12, 2022 21:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MBHave you ever asked your dad "How do feel about money?" In this episode, we talk about the anxieties and pleasures that come with money, and how to get some sort of healthy relationship with the stuff! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected]
"How do you feel about money?"
October 12, 2022 21:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MBHave you ever asked your dad "How do feel about money?" In this episode, we talk about the anxieties and pleasures that come with money, and how to get some sort of healthy relationship with the stuff! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"Do You Swear?"
October 05, 2022 21:00 - 17 minutes - 12.3 MBHave you ever asked your dad "Do you swear?" WARNING: This episode has some adult language - even though we've beeped them all out, it is clear what we are saying so probably not a great idea to play this in the car with your kids ;) Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast...
"How ready were you before the baby arrived?"
September 28, 2022 19:00 - 38 minutes - 26.4 MBHave you ever asked your dad "How ready were you before the baby arrived?" We asked this question to Grant Hinds, one of SA's foremost tech and gaming content creators, a few weeks before his first child was due. We chatted about dealing with family and support structures who pretend that they hard parts of parenting don't exist, the struggle to choose the right equipment for your baby, and, strangely, if he plans to try out breast milk. Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: htt...
"Which TV dad do you relate to?" feat Michael Mol
September 21, 2022 18:00 - 19 minutes - 13.3 MBHave you ever asked your dad "Which TV dad do you relate to?" We asked this question to television host, entrepreneur, doctor and father, Michael Mol! In this episode, he mentions the Fathers Matter Film Series - find out more about it and where you can watch these incredible films here: https://www.heartlines.org.za/fathers-matter/films Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, se...
"What are you afraid of?"
September 14, 2022 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBHave you ever asked your dad "What are you afraid of?" Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
"When was the last time you made a new friend?"
September 07, 2022 21:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MBHave you ever asked your dad "When was the last time you made a new friend?" Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for mo...
"Raising a champion - Interview with Bert le Clos"
August 31, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 43.6 MBHave you ever asked your dad about his thoughts about being a champion? Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in...
"What kind of dad did you think you'd be?"
August 31, 2022 07:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MBHave you ever asked your dad "What kind of dad did you think you'd be?" Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more in...
"What Did You Feel When You First Became a Dad?"
August 25, 2022 06:00 - 26 minutes - 18.5 MBHave you ever asked your dad "What Did You Feel When You First Became a Dad?" Since this is the first episode, we thought it was a good idea to ask each other just that! Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haveyouaskedyourdad/ If you have a question you think dads should be asked, send it to [email protected] Please take a moment to follow us on Instagram Check out Sean's other Podcast, Some Assembly Required If you have a question you think dads ...
Have You Asked Your Dad Trailer
August 24, 2022 07:00 - 59 seconds - 729 KB"Have You Asked Your Dad?" is the new podcast from radio personalities, bloggers and (most importantly) dads Sean Loots and Terence Mentor. In each episode they are going to be asking questions that dads generally don’t get asked - and hopefully that will unlock a path for all of us to be better parents and people. The first three episodes drop on the 1st of September, and they include an UNBELIEVEABLE interview with Chad le Clos’ dad, Bert. Listen to them on iTunes, Spotify or wherever ...
6 Things New Parents Should Know (according to older parents)
August 15, 2021 19:00 - 41 minutes - 28.8 MBIf you are a new parent, or know a new parent, this episode is for you! I asked my followers to tell me something they wished they knew when they first became parents, and received a BUNCH of tips and advice. In this episode, I'm joined by my wife, Julie, as we discuss 6 of our favourite things that were raised by these experienced parents. Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with your friends! Subscribe to Ask AfroDaddy: Apple Podcasts: bit.ly/AskAfroDaddyonApplePodcasts ...
Postnatal Depression in Dads - It's a Thing!
August 02, 2021 12:00 - 17 minutes - 12.4 MBYou've probably heard of the specific kind of depression that sometimes descends on 30-40% of moms after a new baby arrives, but did you know that it may also affect up 20% of dads? In this episode, I discuss the realities of postnatal depression with local Psychiatrist Dr Bavi Vythilingum. We chat about the factors that can lead to parents, especially dads, suffering from this kind of depression, how we can avoid it, and what treatments are available. If you would like to chat to Dr Bav...
Will I Have to Cut All My Hair Off?
June 10, 2021 18:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MBOn Friday, the 25th June 2021, the Afro may be no more. That's if YOU make sure that we make our R120 000 target as we raise funds for the Maletsatsi Foundation. This foundation provides care for many children who are currently in need of a place of safety, but more than that, they provide a family. Some of the children under their care are getting to the age when formal education is becoming a priority which is putting much pressure on an already stretched budget. So, here's what we are ...
Encouraging Courageous Creativity in Your Kids
May 31, 2021 18:00 - 21 minutes - 14.5 MBWhat is courageous creativity, why is it important and how do you get your kids to do it? These are some of the questions that we need to be asking ourselves as parents, and Kristian Imhof, Country Manager of LEGO South Africa joined me in this episode to discuss them! Check out https://ideas.lego.com for more great LEGO ideas that will spark your children's creativity! Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with your friends! Subscribe to Ask AfroDaddy: Apple Podcasts: bit.ly...
We're All a Dumb Dad Sometimes
May 16, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 41.7 MBFinding great content about fatherhood is really tough (that's one of the reasons I started AfroDaddy in the first place), but finding content about fatherhood that is funny, honest and not demeaning about dads is almost impossible. So stumbling across the Dumb Dad Podcast was a very happy event for me. These two comedians and stay-at-home-dads use short and smart videos on TikTok to show the true humour behind being a parent, and then talk through their dumbest dad moments on their weekly...
The Importance of Representation in Children's Books
May 03, 2021 06:00 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MBIn this episode, I had the opportunity to chat to Emily House, author of the new children's book "Bon Bon and Blanket". What makes this story extra special is that almost every family can see a part of themselves in it. I wanted to find out how and why Emily was able to achieve this in her fantastic little book! Order your copy of Bon Bon and Blanket here: https://imagnaryhouse.com/collections/new-releases/products/bonbon-and-blanket Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with...
What Subjects Should Your Child Do in High School?
March 03, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBIf your child is in high school, this might be the year where a BIG question gets asked: Which subjects should your kid study? This feels like an almost impossible choice to make, because there are so many variables involving career choices, aptitude, enjoyment and what the school offers. How do you make that decision, or more importantly, how do you help your child make that decision? In this episode, Educational Psychologist Dayne Williams gives some great advice and insight into thi...
Quick Thought: Pressure vs Support
February 15, 2021 12:00 - 6 minutes - 4.27 MBThese 5 minute episode will focus on one thought or idea I've had floating around in my head, and I would love to get your input! This quick thought is about the difference between being a supportive parent and one that puts unneeded pressure on their children. What do you think about this topic, and what else should I be thinking about? Let me know by emailing [email protected]. You can also message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/afrodaddyct Please rate and review this podcast, a...
Valentine's Day is Different for Parents
February 10, 2021 20:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MBValentine's Day is coming up, so it's the time of the year when parents around the world turn to their partner and ask, "So...are we going to do anything this year, or...?" The reality is that being a parent fundamentally changes the way you can show and enjoy romance - let's just admit it, and find new ways to enjoy Valentine's Day. I asked you what were you doing on the day, so Julie and I went through your answers to look for some great ideas! Please rate and review this podcast, and s...
Quick Thought: More Than a Parent
February 08, 2021 09:00 - 4 minutes - 3.38 MBThese 5 minute episode will focus on one thought or idea I've had floating around in my head, and I would love to get your input! This quick thought is about remembering that we are more than parents. What do you think about this topic, and what else should I be thinking about? Let me know by emailing [email protected]. You can also message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/afrodaddyct Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with your friends! Subscribe to Ask AfroDaddy: A...
Quick Thought: Community
February 01, 2021 11:00 - 4 minutes - 3.39 MBThis is the first of the AfroDaddy's Quick Thought series. These 5 minute episode will focus on one thought or idea I've had floating around in my head, and I would love to get your input! What do you think about this topic, and what else should I be thinking about? Let me know by emailing [email protected]. You can also message me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/afrodaddyct Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with your friends! Subscribe to Ask AfroDaddy: Apple Podcas...
Two Dads vs Google Part 2
January 27, 2021 20:00 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MBWho knows more about parenting...two normal dads or Google? To help me answer that question, I enlisted the help of comedian Liam Bento. We took the internet giant head on, so listen to this episode to find out who wins! (Just remember...95% of this episode is supposed to be a joke and SHOULD NOT be considered to be real parenting advice!) Check out Liam's humour Instagram account Broque Brasse: https://www.instagram.com/broquebrasse Please rate and review this podcast, and share it wit...
Why Men Wait Too Long to Go to the Doctor
January 13, 2021 20:00 - 42 minutes - 28.9 MBMen can be really stupid sometimes. Okay fine...a lot of the time. But honestly, one of the dumbest things we do is wait until things are REALLY bad before we get any medical help or treatment. This is obviously particularly bad during a pandemic like the one we're currently experiencing. Why do men do this, and more importantly, how do we encourage them to start caring for their health more proactively? To help me answer these questions, I was joined on this episode by The Street Doctor ...
What Are High School Kids Thinking?
December 17, 2020 09:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MBWe flip the script in this episode! I chatted to Grade 11 (going to Matric), Thomas, about what it is like being in high school in 2020 and coping with pandemic. Also, find out what high schoolers wished their parents knew! Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with your friends! Subscribe to Ask AfroDaddy: Apple Podcasts: bit.ly/AskAfroDaddyonApplePodcasts Google Podcasts: bit.ly/AskAfroDaddyonGooglePodcasts Spotify: bit.ly/AskAfroDaddyonSpotify Stitcher: bit.ly/AskAfroDad...
The Pandemic Has Changed You as a Parent
November 12, 2020 13:00 - 45 minutes - 31.3 MBHow has the pandemic affected your parenting? We have all lived through a fairly unique time over the past few months, which has meant we've had to change how we parent. I asked my social media followers what their experience was, and in this episode we take a look at some of the wide ranging responses we received and try to explain how some of us feel like we're better parents now...while others feel like they've dropped the ball. Please rate and review this podcast, and share it with yo...
A Father's Journey Episode 3 - SHE'S HERE!
October 15, 2020 18:00 - 46 minutes - 32.1 MBThis episode did not go as planned. Originally, it was supposed to be our final conversation with Dad-to-be, Dayne, before his baby girl was born...but that baby girl had other ideas! So, since she came a few months early, we held off recording this until this new family had time to settle in. In this episode Dayne and I chat about his first few months being a dad, what it's like having a child in NICU for a few weeks, and how proud he is of his burping skills - all while listening back t...
Keeping It Together While the World Falls Apart
September 24, 2020 18:00 - 1 hour - 44 MBIn this episode, I chat to Sean Loots (aka Seano), a radio presenter, podcaster, husband and father. Sean and his wife went through (and in many ways, are still going through) the trauma of watching their young baby struggle with immense health issues - but at the same time, he had to keep up the happy, cheerful drive time radio personality. How did he manage that, and what were the consequences to him and his family? That's what we talk about in this episode! By the way, if you want to h...
When Your Daughter's Courage Inspires You
September 24, 2020 18:00 - 1 hour - 44 MBIn this episode, I chat to Sean Loots (aka Seano), a radio presenter, podcaster, husband and father. Sean and his wife went through (and in many ways, are still going through) the trauma of watching their young baby struggle with immense health issues - but at the same time, he had to keep up the happy, cheerful drive time radio personality. How did he manage that, and what were the consequences to him and his family? That's what we talk about in this episode! By the way, if you want to h...
What Car Should Parents Buy?
September 09, 2020 20:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MBIt's one of the biggest financial decisions we make: What car are we going to buy? This question becomes even harder when you have think about getting a car that works for a family. Must it be big enough to fit everyone, plus the dog? Or should it be more fuel-efficient to save money? Is reliability the most important thing to keep in mind (considering how terrible a malfunctioning car is during a school run)? I'm really happy that I managed to get someone who I consider to be the "SA Car ...
What Dads of Girls are Thinking
August 27, 2020 20:00 - 1 hour - 46 MBThere are many parenting experiences that I haven't had, and since I have two sons, one big one is being a father to a girl. So to understand how having a daughter changes a man and what these dads actually think about Life, the Universe and Parenting, I chatted to two friends of mine who who are currently going through it all. Tim Thabethe is an ex-colleague and current friend (even though he lives all the way in Bloemfontein). Charles Gottschalk is a friend who lives up the road - his w...