(keywords) (slightly edited version) Techniques, upaya, tight knot, deluded selfhood, 4 divine abidings, dilemmas, conundrums, 84,000 dhamma doors, agility, forgiveness, judgement-free awareness, discriminative intelligence, excruciating, taking sides, Dhammacakka Sutta, sway, extremism, compulsive judging disorder, bee’s knees, cat’s whiskers, stop meditating, fog, cloud, relaxation, zealous, assertive, Dhammapada verse 90, binding ties, gentleness.