Are You Sure We Should Do This?
19 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 15 ratingsAre You Sure We Should Do This? Probably not, but here we are! Longtime best friends, Frankie and Marisa, are opinionated Jersey girls who you definitely should not take advice from. Each week, they dive into random topics that most 20-something year old girls can relate to and will cover everything from getting cut off at the bar to living in your parents’ house and other, less depressing things too! In their reality episodes each week, they will cover hot topics and give hot takes on all things pop culture and reality TV.
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Episodes
Propose to me during a pandemic, I dare you.
August 28, 2020 21:00 - 36 minutes - 25.4 MBIn this episode, Frankie and Marisa debate a very hot topic: COVID weddings. This episode also features two of our favorite recurring guests, Mike and Danny, aka the Monopoli boys to give the male perspective. The crew also discuss popular wedding trends and give plenty of hot takes regarding bridal parties, donut walls and wedding hashtags. As always, this episode is definitely not for the easily offended so please only listen if you have a sense of humor and are comfortable with being roas...
HEY! Hey... How y'all doin...
July 15, 2020 15:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MBLive (JK, it’s pre-recorded) from Belmar, NJ, the girls are back with a new episode with their very own COVID NURSE BESTIE! She talks about what she went through and the current state of the tri-state and still manages to bring comedic relief to a stressful situation. The girls also discuss hot topics like Joey Chestnut crushing his own world record, trending Tik Tok sounds and trashy garbage companies like Shein and Wayfair. Then things take a slightly medical turn but at minute 31 we retur...
More Quarantine Content Feat. Some NEW Guests
May 05, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 42.6 MBFor your quarentainment, Frankie and Marisa are joined by two new guests and Mike (again.) Making his podcast debut and coming in hot, Frankie's boyfriend Dan is here to offer some insight on being in a new relationship during these weird times. To make it even more confusing, they are also joined by Mike's brother Danny to give a non-coupled up perspective. Take a break from Zooming your own friends and hang with us for an hour as we deep dive into everything from dating in quarantine, poop...
Quarantine Chronicles: The Opposite of Sober
April 29, 2020 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MBHave ya missed us?!?!?! In an attempt at normalcy, Frankie and Marisa host their first quarantine podcast via that thing called Zoom that everyone now relies on to save their sanity. If you live in northern New Jersey, this episode is for you. We're deep diving into where we have found toilet paper, what restaurants we're trying post-quarantine and how we have been staying sane while living with our parents. Is the word quarantini dead? Are we social distancing incorrectly? Did Marisa have c...
REAL EPISODE 10: Roasting our high school selves
March 03, 2020 17:00 - 45 minutes - 31 MBREADY TO DIE OF SECONDHAND EMBARRASSMENT? THEN THIS IS THE EPISODE FOR YOU! Frankie and Marisa decided that if they want their future guests to put themselves out there, they might as well fully embarrass their own selves in this cringey episode that fully exposes their most embarrassing high school moments. Take a journey down memory lane and relate with us! If you actually read these descriptions fully, please comment your favorite part of the movie Just Go With It on our latest Instagram ...
REAL EPISODE 9: Stop and smell the chocolate
February 14, 2020 13:00 - 40 minutes - 27.7 MBHappy Galentine’s Day, Real Ones! This episode features us gossiping about our high school love lives and giving our opinions on various Valentine’s Day topics even though you didn’t ask! Love is in the air this week and we’re sharing why our legs won’t be! Find out how our cycles are synced up and Marisa embarrassed TF out of herself in elementary school on Valentine’s Day and how Frankie’s parents are her valentines and she still gets a Valentine’s Day basket… is that a thing?? Marisa and ...
REAL EPISODE 8: Horror Stories - Roommate Edition
February 03, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 45.9 MBRoommates are like periods; we don't really want them but usually we don't have a choice! This week, Frankie and Marisa are joined by their BFF, Kayla and Marisa's younger sister, Salina. Get ready to immediately want to rent a studio and live alone forever because we are all sharing the ugly side of having roommates. It's honestly amazing how many crazy stories we all have to share of how freakin' crazy some people are. Join us for story time and hear about the thieves, weirdos and sex addi...
REAL EPISODE 7: Sporty Spice
January 29, 2020 21:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MBWE'RE BAAAAAAACK! Happy 2020, real ones! Thanks for bearing with us during our hiatus. In honor of the Super Bowl, Frankie and Marisa are tackling the topic of sports and it's a slightly cringey but gives a nice perspective into a girl's brain during football season. From one girl who despises sports events and one girl who actually likes sports plus a little pop quiz at the end that will probably make boys everywhere be afraid of what Miguel is dealing with. 10/10 recommend making krabby pa...
REAL EPISODE 6: Asking Boys Super Awkward Questions Feat. A Panel of Actual Boys!
December 31, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 43.9 MBPrepare for secondhand embarrassment! We are back from our holiday break with this hilarious and cringe-worthy episode where we basically multiple our previous guest, Miguel, by 6. Frankie and Marisa become wildly unfiltered and ask them the (supposed) burning questions that girls want to know according to the internet! Most of this episode is NSFW and definitely not for the easily offended. Enjoy lightly and with alcohol if you can! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
REAL EPISODE 5: The Single Life Feat. TWO Very Special Guests
December 14, 2019 00:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBWhewwwww get ready for a wild ride. This episode features TWO very special guests, Marisa and Frankie’s homegirls, Mel and Meg. They are Hoboken roomies living their best single life and are opening up all about their dating lives and why you should never ask a girl to go on a hike for your first date (spoiler alert: Mel WILL call the cops on you.) Marisa sort of moderates this very hungover girl chat and tries to get some insight on what it would be like to not be in a relationship from thr...
REALITY EPISODE 3: A long-winded, overdue recap of RHOA, Below Deck, RHOC, RHOD and RHONJ
December 09, 2019 20:00 - 1 hour - 42.5 MBA delayed reality recap of our faves! Marisa has a cold and halfway through the episode, Frankie develops a cold as well. Please bare with us and our strange voices. We also share some endearing stories about encounters with homeless people this week that have literally no relation and are unable to transition into the episode. Enjoy! :) 10:30 RHOA 19:37 Below Deck 24:38 RHOC 32:37 RHOD 43:00 RHONJ Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
REAL EPISODE 4: Relationshit Show Feat. A Special Guest
December 03, 2019 15:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MBThis week we are joined by the one and only Mike Monopoli and dive into some pressing relationship questions. Marisa and Mike reminisce and Frankie moderates/third wheels but what else is new there?? (Answer: nothing.) This episode contains excessive laughter and some cringey moments because Miguel didn't get the memo that this wasn't an open mic night. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
REAL EPISODE 3: SHOPPING SZN
November 26, 2019 23:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MBIn honor of the greatest shopping weekend of the year, we are spilling all of our thoughts about fashion trends and how we spend that paycheck. Frankie accidentally says the early worm gets the bird and Marisa tells you ALLLLLLL the Black Friday deals worth talking about and what to get at them. Happy shopping, real ones! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
REAL EPISODE 2: Working gals!
November 21, 2019 16:00 - 52 minutes - 36.4 MBIn this week's episode, we attempt to make talking about work somewhat fun by ranting with a bottle of red wine and margaritas. We share everythingggg (maybe too much) from coworker crushes to traumatizing stories and everything in between. We are also joined by one of our besties, Jenna, who has a job that actually makes a difference in people's lives! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
SPECIAL EPISODE: BRAVOCON BITCHES!
November 21, 2019 02:00 - 1 hour - 50.3 MBWe went to Bravocon and lived our best lives. Marisa has a deep male voice from screaming along to Scheana’s live performance of Good as Gold and Frankie thinks she telepathically communicated with Ariana and Tom Sandoval. And Carl from Summer House. We now live in delusion that we are part of the Bravo universe. Please enjoy this extra long episode filled with lots of piping hot Bravo tea. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
REALITY EPISODE 2: RHOA, RHOC, Below Deck, RHOD, RHONJ
November 18, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 43.7 MBWe’re baaaaack with a delayed reality recap for ya! We went to Bravocon and lived it up too much and forgot to post this episode. It’s amateur hour over here, TBH. Please enjoy this rant about RHOA, RHOC, Below Deck, RHOD and RHONJ. A very special Bravocon recap is coming V soon! This episode ends with the introduction of our made up club that's like a book club except instead we just assign you some trashy television shows to watch. Don't forget to complete your homework assignment before t...
REAL EPISODE 1: How old is too old to live at home?
November 13, 2019 16:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MBOur first REAL episode is here! This week, Frankie and Marisa discuss (ramble about) the pros and cons of living at home in your mid-twenties over several margaritas. Then that episode got deleted because *mercury in retrograde* so we rerecorded it over a mature glass of red wine. Does it kill your sex life or are you the world’s most financially responsible person? I also need you to know Frankie didn’t talk to her parents for an hour while we recorded this and had to make up for that with ...
REALITY EPISODE 1: A full Bravo rant featuring RHOA, Below Deck, RHOC, RHOD and RHONJ
November 08, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 48.1 MBOur premiere episode is here! We rant and gossip about all things Bravo and there was A LOT. Probably too much. Please keep in mind we are RHONJ super fans and that our brains slowly fail as the prosecco disappears. We promise to work on saying “like” next episode but it’s our first effin’ episode so give us a break OKAY?!? 1:45 RHOA 14:45 BELOW DECK 28:20 RHOC 35:55 RHOD 48:45 RHONJ Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/AYSWSDT)
You definitely don't know us
November 04, 2019 23:00 - 1 minute - 1 MBGet ready to dive into the craziness! BFFs, Frankie and Marisa, will be hosting bi-weekly REAL vs. REALITY episodes. The real episodes will cover topics ranging from getting cut off at the bar to living in your parents' house at an unreasonable age. The reality episodes will include pop culture gossip and reality TV recaps. These opinionated Jersey girls are excited to basically record the conversations you might be too embarrassed to actually have out loud. Best listened to with a bottle of...