EP 10: Being a Christian and Accepting Yourself as a Sexual Being with Shaun Leisher

Shaun Leisher is a Theatre artist, "new play doula," community organizer, and curious being. For me, he's a great example of a man who is in an honest, grounded, vulnerable conversation about his sexuality and is staying true to his value of being a Christian. He tells it like it is (including a fun recent experience trying out 69 for the first time), and he lets us in on the path he's been on to let go of years and years of sexual shame. Think about it - it really takes something to be on a public forum talking about your sex life with such aliveness and realness!
Listen in as we discuss:

Growing up in a Pentecostal church and guilt and shame

Penetrative Sex as distinctly different than Sex (and the social conditioning we have around this)

Play in sex as access to silliness and letting our bodies be what our bodies be!

Doing things for the first time in sex and the fun awkwardness in that

Letting our bodies be what we want them to be

Relating to sex from curiosity

Making requests in sex that come from generosity, not "right/wrong" or "good/bad"

Tools to work through shame: finding like minded people and bringing shame to the light

Being a Christian and accepting yourself as a sexual being

Shaun's desire to create spaces for men and boys to talk about sex and shame

Toxic Masculine vs. Divine Masculine

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Shaun's Instagram:
@shaunaturgy

Shaun Leisher is a Theatre artist, "new play doula," community organizer, and curious being. For me, he's a great example of a man who is in an honest, grounded, vulnerable conversation about his sexuality and is staying true to his value of being a Christian. He tells it like it is (including a fun recent experience trying out 69 for the first time), and he lets us in on the path he's been on to let go of years and years of sexual shame. Think about it - it really takes something to be on a public forum talking about your sex life with such aliveness and realness!

Listen in as we discuss:

Growing up in a Pentecostal church and guilt and shame
Penetrative Sex as distinctly different than Sex (and the social conditioning we have around this)
Play in sex as access to silliness and letting our bodies be what our bodies be!
Doing things for the first time in sex and the fun awkwardness in that
Letting our bodies be what we want them to be
Relating to sex from curiosity
Making requests in sex that come from generosity, not "right/wrong" or "good/bad"
Tools to work through shame: finding like minded people and bringing shame to the light
Being a Christian and accepting yourself as a sexual being
Shaun's desire to create spaces for men and boys to talk about sex and shame
Toxic Masculine vs. Divine Masculine

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':

https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:

https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:

www.cailinmcduff.com

Shaun's Instagram:

@shaunaturgy