In today’s episode, Doula Rachael and Dr. Shannon discuss the Pathways to Family Wellness article: “You’re Not Allowed to Not Allow Me.  Reclaiming the rights of mothers during birth.”  Although this is an article from 2015, the topic surrounding certain words that providers use is still relevant.  

Our words have power. Words can instill strength or fear and words can give confidence or doubt. The words we think are also powerful.  

This article discusses the word “allow” as it pertains to providers communicating to expecting families about “allowing '' certain things such as VBAC’s, eating and drinking during labor, pushing in upright positions, and various other options.  

“What woman who has experienced nine months of language like “we can’t let you” and “you’re not allowed” is going to suddenly have the wherewithal to refuse an unnecessary surgery - or to even know that she has the right to do so?”

The article concludes with four simple ways to take back that power, to feel empowered with your birth and birth experience, and to create a birth support team that encourages shared-decision making conversations between the provider and expecting family.  

Resources:

You’re Not Allowed to Not Allow Me 

This article appeared in Pathways to Family Wellness magazine, Issue #47 and #64.

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