The One About Choosing Yourself

Are you going through life being more than a little co-dependent? Being a people pleaser? A martyr? Always putting others first?
Join the club. I’ve spent most of my life making those same choices.
Sometimes these choices come from need. Sometimes they’re incredibly useful and resourceful strategies, at moments when your safety depends on them. But that doesn’t mean you need to stick with those same self-limiting decisions forever.
As I’ve matured and my circumstances have changed - as I’ve built a life and a business that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside - I have really focused on my values. Value filtered living is where it’s at!
In this week’s episode, I’m looking at why choosing yourself is the key to becoming a truly kickass and kind human.
Listen on for:The disservice you’re currently doing to yourself (and your audience) and what you can do about it.
The impact that choosing myself has had on my business and what I offer the world.
My wild intentions for this year… and how you can help me achieve them!
Journaling prompts to help you define what choosing yourself really means for you, and figure out how to take action on that.
Links & resources mentioned in this episode:Find me on https://www.instagram.com/ebonieallard/ (Instagram)
https://ebonieallard.com/m2m365/ (Misfit to Maven 365: One Year, No Fear!) - Check out the only place to get 1:1 coaching with me PLUS be cheer-led and challenged by me and my team… so that you can show up, belong, make money, and get the freedom you desire.
https://ebonieallard.com/ (Join the mailing list) for weekly pep talks.
https://ebonieallard.com/product/value-filter-masterclass/ (The Value Filter masterclass)
Misfit to Maven: The Story of Argh to Ahhh - my first book https://ebonieallard.com/product/signed-copy-of-misfit-to-maven/ (in my shop) (signed) or https://www.amazon.co.uk/Misfit-Maven-Story-Argh-Ahhh/dp/1910056324/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2SO61MGGWW12L&keywords=misfit+to+maven&qid=1579002816&sprefix=misfit+to%2Caps%2C170&sr=8-1 (on Amazon)
Additional goodies:https://www.instagram.com/valuefilteredliving/ (Join the Value Filtered Living Club (free)) - join our secret community for weekly chats, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!
https://adultingwithebonie.com/the-one-about-endings-and-beginnings/ (The one about endings and beginnings)
https://adultingwithebonie.com/the-one-about-capacity/ (The one about capacity (with Lisa Fabrega))
https://adultingwithebonie.com/the-one-about-the-antidote-to-burnout/ (The one about the antidote to burnout (with Audrey Holst))

Are you going through life being more than a little co-dependent? Being a people pleaser? A martyr? Always putting others first?

Join the club. I’ve spent most of my life making those same choices.

Sometimes these choices come from need. Sometimes they’re incredibly useful and resourceful strategies, at moments when your safety depends on them. But that doesn’t mean you need to stick with those same self-limiting decisions forever.

As I’ve matured and my circumstances have changed - as I’ve built a life and a business that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside - I have really focused on my values. Value filtered living is where it’s at!

In this week’s episode, I’m looking at why choosing yourself is the key to becoming a truly kickass and kind human.

Listen on for:The disservice you’re currently doing to yourself (and your audience) and what you can do about it.The impact that choosing myself has had on my business and what I offer the world.My wild intentions for this year… and how you can help me achieve them!Journaling prompts to help you define what choosing yourself really means for you, and figure out how to take action on that.Links & resources mentioned in this episode:Find me on InstagramMisfit to Maven 365: One Year, No Fear! - Check out the only place to get 1:1 coaching with me PLUS be cheer-led and challenged by me and my team… so that you can show up, belong, make money, and get the freedom you desire.Join the mailing list for weekly pep talks.The Value Filter masterclassMisfit to Maven: The Story of Argh to Ahhh - my first book in my shop (signed) or on AmazonAdditional goodies:Join the Value Filtered Living Club (free) - join our secret community for weekly chats, thoughts on adulting, and tips on living a value-filtered life! This is where we share all our best free content, so join us today!The one about endings and beginningsThe one about capacity (with Lisa Fabrega)The one about the antidote to burnout (with Audrey Holst)