Sapphic Sanctuary
16 episodes - English - Latest episode: 9 months ago - ★★★★★ - 1 ratingFive years ago I was in bed miserable again. I couldn't place why. I didn't want to know why. After all, I had what I was supposed to want. But it felt all wrong.
Nothing was adding up. Everything felt off and I had a sinking suspicion that something was broken inside of me.
If I could go back to that girl I would tell her
That she was not broken.
That nothing was wrong with her.
I would tell her that she was a LESBIAN. And that that was a beautiful thing to be.
I would tell her how to come out of the closet, how to find god in her lover's smile, and how to love more than she ever imagined. I would warn her that not everyone would understand. I would tell her that wouldn't matter because she would feel radiant.
If you relate to the girl I was before, it is my deepest intention that this podcast will help you.
Each week I will meet with you and give you Everything I have. My intimate stories, tarot readings and every tool and resource I used to get to where I am now.
I promise you are at the beginning of everything and not the end.
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Episodes
Imagining Your Sapphic Life and Leaving Behind Gender Roles.
July 11, 2023 06:00 - 15 minutes - 10.7 MBThis episode is an invitation to begin contemplating what you sapphic life could look like. the future can feel foggy for anyone but especially if you are contemplating coming out as gay. there is a lot of expectations that society places on us starting with all the rules we have been taught about gender.
Unpacking My Relationship With My Ex Boyfriend
July 04, 2023 06:00 - 21 minutes - 14.9 MBMy ex boyfriend came at the perfect time. He helped me in so many ways but the relationship was definitely a struggle. In this episode I give insight into: 1. Why I was able to date him for as long as I did. 2. What was going on in my life that made me more likely to date a man. 3. How that relationship eventually fizzled out. 4. My thoughts on if you need to have the I'm gay talk with you significant other.
How People Pleasing allowed Me to Stuff Down My Sexuality and How I Stopped
June 27, 2023 06:00 - 17 minutes - 12.4 MBThe best part of coming through people pleasing is finding that core part of you. Discovering your real truthful personality and getting to meet yourself feels so lovely. This episode is pretty reflective. I share a lot about my personal experiences with people pleasing, anxiety and how it played into my late bloomer story. Moving through this taught me two things: 1. that part of you that is willing to do whatever it takes to make someone happy is just trying to protect you 2.The best p...
Emotional Waves And Creating Safety
June 20, 2023 06:00 - 20 minutes - 14 MBYour emotions may be everywhere but that doesn't mean what you're doing is wrong or bad. its important look for the parts of your life that you can do the same. Doing so will help you navigate your emotional ups and downs. Make sure you are actively finding ways to comforting yourself. Send in your questions or your story to help the community grow. we can do this together and your thoughts will likely help the next person. [email protected] Sending you all my love and encourage...
Feeling Trapped: The Three Stages And How To Move Through Them
June 10, 2023 07:00 - 23 minutes - 16.1 MBThis is the episode to listen to if you are feeling really freaked out and stuck in your life. I go into the three stages late blooming Sapphic women go through when they are in the closet. From denial to Creating a plan it's all covered. Hey my loves send me a email with your story. Its going to take all of us to help each other your story could be the thing that really helps someone heal! [email protected] the best way to support this podcast is to leave a review :)
This is Hard and It Can Be Beautfiul. A look at My Lesbian Life.
June 03, 2023 06:00 - 17 minutes - 11.8 MBThis is not easy to do. We are going against a whole system that has been tailored to not allow this to occur. It can also be so beautiful. Today I shared a bit about the daily joy I get in my sapphic relationship. Maybe it allows you to get a glimpse and what you could have too. let me know what you think this is your space too and I would love to hear from you. leave a review or email me your thoughts. [email protected]
Attraction vs Wanting to be Desirable
May 27, 2023 06:00 - 23 minutes - 16.1 MBThere is very little space for us to feel attraction to women in our society. often we are taught that we need male validation to be desired and loved. Confusing wanting that male validation and actually wanting to be with them is more common than you think. In this episode I give you my honest reflections of my own experience with this growing up.
How to Figure Out What You Truly Want
May 20, 2023 07:00 - 11 minutes - 8.25 MBWhen we set goals we are often focused on getting the A+. We think we want the accolades, the status, the money, the whatever but that type of shit leaves you hollow. We are the type of people who want so much more than anything so basic. We owe it to ourselves to ask that question. what do I really want at the end of all this? what emotion do I want to resound in my body when I get there ? love you so much and as always if you are craving a chat you can email me [email protected]...
Its Not Creepy To Think Women Are HOT
May 13, 2023 06:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MBNothing is wrong with you and actually this is a good thing. Its okay to be attracted to girls it can even be fun. Thinking she is attractive is not the same thing as harassing her. Yes there's a line but the fact that your listening to this shows me that you have a pretty clear idea what it is.
Guilt
May 06, 2023 09:00 - 24 minutes - 16.7 MBWhat if you're not as bad as you think you are? Also whose definition of good and bad are we holding sacred. what if we recognized that we can decide what morals we want to judge ourselves against? bottom line you're not a piece of shit. love you lots. leave a review or email me to tell me what you think [email protected]
The Truth Comes Out
April 29, 2023 07:00 - 11 minutes - 7.62 MBComing out isn't just about who will and won't accept us its also about who we will and won't accept. When we give someone a glimpse into our soul and they give us back bigotry we don't have to play nice. Bottom line: You don't have to hang out with people who suck. P.S. If you have something your dying to chat about you can email me at [email protected] P.S.S. If you're feeling extra generous write a review I would be a honor to hear form you.
Connecting with your Future Self
April 22, 2023 09:00 - 17 minutes - 11.9 MBThis episode is all about traveling to that future version of yourself. You can bring all the knowledge back to the present, so you can live your best life NOW not later. Let me know what your thinking shoot me a email. @[email protected]
The Impact of Imagination: How It Can Change Everything
April 15, 2023 12:00 - 10 minutes - 7.32 MBWhen we stop Imagining a better world the opressors win. In this episode I talk about the importance of imagination. It's the first step we take when we are trying to change our lives. Imagine like nobody is watching because nobody is. Your imagination belongs fully to you. It's the safest way to open up to change. There is no risk. If you feel like sharing what you imagined but have no one to tell send me an email. I am on standby with all the confetti. [email protected]
Fight Cycles How to Disrupt Them and What To Do in the Middle of a Argument
May 19, 2021 06:00 - 26 minutes - 17.9 MBIn this episode Savannah talks about the fights that just keep happening on repeat and what to do about them. Then she goes into how to remain cool and calm even when you're in the middle of a tough argument. Feel free to email me with questions episode suggestions or any feedback. I would love to hear from you. [email protected]
Gross my Partner is Starting to act like my Parent
April 28, 2021 06:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MBDo you find yourself feeling like a rebellious teenager every time your partner makes a request? Nobody want to feel like they are a kid in a relationship. This episode give insights on how to disrupt that icky parent child dynamic. let me know what you are thinking. I read ever DM @adhdrelationshiptea https://instagram.com/adhdrelationshiptea?igshid=1vjkz8w5brc0l
Let Go of Shame and Guilt
April 23, 2021 19:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MBIn this episode I give you four ways to start releasing shame and guilt.