Height. Age. Race. Those are just physical preferences. What about kindness, honesty and clear communication? How about romantic gestures and common goals and interests? Are we into marriage and kids? Or do we want to travel the world and make art? Both? None? Tune in...

In this episode, Orville and Alana discuss what they personally want and need in romantic relationships. And just to be clear, we are both heterosexual and monogamous, but we realize that many people view relationships very differently. We can only speak on how we feel through our own perspectives and experiences.

How about you? What do you need to feel safe and loved in your relationships with loved ones? Please let us know in the comments below, we'd love to hear from you!