Don't you wish you knew what you know now when you were younger? Here are some of the biggest things I wish I knew at 28 that I now know at 38. I talk about egg freezing as a fertility option that is a great option the earlier you consider it. Why didn't I know this at 28? I also talk about dealbreakers in relationships, what they were for me and what to look out for early on. Then we discuss defining the relationship -- yes, it's a thing. And yes, if you want to date seriously, it should be done...but don't miss the subtle signs from your partner when you do this. Last, we have to talk about big decisions - specifically, moving in together. How do you know if it's the right move? What's the risk? I give you the things to be sure of before you move in with your mate to avoid making the wrong decision.